My most shameful baggage
What are you most ashamed of in your past?
Ex. 1 If I tell you (my most shameful baggage) , will you find me unworthy of a connection?
Ex. 2 I will never be enough because of _________________.
Why are you MOST ashamed of this thing/incident/mistake/event?
What have you done to distant yourself from this shame?
What have you given up because of this shame?